Let's Talk About Sex, Brunei

I wonder, where do people get it on when they want to have sex? Of course there are the hotels and their own houses when parents are gone, but what about those who either can't afford hotels, or their parents are always home? I'd like to imagine women giving handjobs to guys or guys stealing cheeky gropes while they drive, or couples stopping at empty parking lots at forest reserves just to do their thing. I find that image quite amusing.

What I don't find amusing is the fact that sex is so taboo here. I have a sneaky feeling that a substantial percentage of unmarried people in Brunei aren't virgins. Yet it's not something you'd talk about freely, at least not with someone you'd absolutely trust. I'm not convinced of people's justifications of why pre-marital sex shouldn't happen. All if not most of those problems can be fixed with good sex education (or life skills, as it is called here), good and open parenting, and safe sex.

I haven't had sex for a few months. It's quite a frustrating feeling. This has resulted in me coming up with slightly tech-y ways of circumventing the country's ban of porn sites. It's not even that hard to work around. Many of my masturbatory sessions have been made possible by the wonderful Tor.

Von Brandis's Censored Porn

I have an affinity for amateur porn. It just feels more real, giving us a more reachable goal to aim for. Professional porn can be appealing sometimes, but the over-excited moans and OTT faces turn me off quite quickly. The big cocks and even bigger boobs... They become distracting even. It makes me think, oh god, why are those things so big? What normal human beings have cocks that long and huge and boobs that massive and round?

Boobs shouldn't be big footballs. They should be fun things to suckle on and carress. Oh well, I guess big, giant boobs do turn on quite a lot of people. Who am I to dictate how they should make porn.

An Honest Bruneian